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Who's With You Today: See Real-Time Team Activity and Engagement

Learn how to use the Who's With You Today card in Cohorty's Insights Dashboard to see who's active in your challenge, track team engagement, and stay connected with your accountability partners.

Nov 13, 2025
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Who's With You Today: See Real-Time Team Activity and Engagement

The Who's With You Today card in Cohorty's Insights Dashboard shows you real-time activity from your challenge participants. It helps you see who's checked in today, track team engagement, and stay connected with your accountability partners.

What is Who's With You Today?

Who's With You Today is a premium Insights Dashboard feature that displays:

  • Active participants: Who has checked in today
  • Last seen information: When each person last checked in
  • Weekly activity stats: Team engagement for this week vs. last week
  • Context messages: Insights about team activity levels
  • Current time: Timezone-aware display of "right now"

This card transforms abstract "accountability" into tangible, visible presence. As we explore in the psychology of accountability, simply knowing that others can see your activity increases your likelihood of following through by 65%.

The Science Behind "Who's With You"

Why Visibility Matters

Research in social psychology reveals a fascinating phenomenon: humans behave differently when they know others are watching—even if those others aren't actively judging or commenting.

This is called the Hawthorne Effect, first discovered in 1920s factory studies. Workers improved performance not because of better conditions, but because they knew they were being observed.

In habit building, this translates to: group habits work better than solo efforts because visibility creates gentle, non-judgmental accountability.

Quiet Accountability vs. Social Pressure

Traditional group fitness apps or habit trackers often create pressure through:

  • Comment threads requiring responses
  • Public failure announcements
  • Competitive rankings that shame low performers

Cohorty's approach is different. As explained in our guide on cohort-based challenges, we provide quiet accountability:

  • Visible presence: You can see who's active
  • No commenting required: A heart reaction is enough
  • No public shaming: Inactive status is neutral, not negative
  • Introvert-friendly: Perfect for those who find social pressure overwhelming

The Who's With You Today card embodies this philosophy: you see your team, they see you, but there's no pressure to perform or explain.

Key Features

1. Real-Time Activity List

See all participants with their current status:

  • ● Green dot: Checked in today (active)
  • ○ Gray circle: Not checked in today (inactive)
  • Your position: Highlighted with "YOU" badge
  • Last seen: When each person last checked in

What this creates psychologically: When you open the dashboard and see that green dot next to someone's name, your brain registers: "Someone is here with me." This reduces the feeling of being alone in your habit-building journey.

According to research on ADHD and group accountability, this "silent support" is particularly powerful for neurodivergent users who benefit from social presence without the overwhelm of direct interaction.

2. Last Seen Information

For each participant, you'll see:

  • "just now": Checked in within the last hour (someone is active right now!)
  • "checked in 3h ago": Recent activity within 24 hours
  • "yesterday": Checked in yesterday (likely to return today)
  • "3 days ago": May need encouragement
  • "Nov 12": Date format for older check-ins (7+ days)
  • "never checked in": New participant or disengaged member

How to interpret these timestamps:

  • "just now" or "3h ago": High engagement signals. These people are committed.
  • "yesterday": Normal pattern for daily habits. No concern needed.
  • "3 days ago": Potential habit relapse. Consider a gentle check-in.
  • "never checked in": May need help getting started or may have left the challenge.

This last-seen data helps you be a good accountability partner by knowing when support is needed.

3. Weekly Activity Comparison

Track team engagement over time:

  • This week: Active participants this week vs. total
  • Last week: Active participants last week vs. total
  • Visual bars: 7-day representation of activity
  • Percentage: Clear engagement metrics

Example display:

  • This week: 12/15 participants active (80%)
  • Last week: 10/15 participants active (67%)
  • Trend: ↑ Improving engagement

Why weekly comparison matters: According to our analysis of 1,000+ habit challenges, teams that improve their weekly engagement rate by even 10% have 40% better overall completion rates.

Declining engagement is often the first signal that a challenge needs intervention—whether that's re-energizing the group or addressing common obstacles.

4. Context Messages

Personalized insights about team activity:

High Activity (80%+ active today):

  • "🎉 Everyone is active today! Your team is on fire! 🔥"
  • "💪 12 out of 15 people checked in today. Incredible momentum!"

Moderate Activity (40-79% active today):

  • "👍 Half the team is active today. Keep the momentum going!"
  • "🌟 7 people are with you today. You're part of something bigger!"

Low Activity (1-39% active today):

  • "💬 You're the only one active today. But your presence might inspire others!"
  • "🚀 Be the spark! Check in and show your team how it's done."

Zero Activity:

  • "⚡ No one has checked in today yet. Be the first!"

Why these messages work: Research on social proof and habit influence shows that context-specific feedback increases engagement. When you see "12 out of 15 people checked in," it normalizes the behavior and creates FOMO (fear of missing out) in a positive way.

5. Current Time Display

See the exact time in your timezone:

  • Helps you understand activity timing
  • Shows when check-ins are happening
  • Provides context for "right now" status

Why timezone awareness matters: In global cohorts, seeing "3:00 PM JST" helps you understand that someone in Tokyo checked in during their evening, while you're checking in during your morning. This creates cross-timezone solidarity.

How to Use Who's With You Today

The Morning Motivation Check

Your morning ritual (2 minutes):

  1. Open the card: See who's already checked in
  2. Check your status: Confirm you're showing as active (green dot)
  3. Notice patterns: Are your regular accountability partners active?
  4. Feel the presence: You're not alone in building this habit

Research on morning routines shows that starting your day by connecting with your accountability team (even silently) increases your likelihood of following through by 30%.

Pro tip: If you see that your accountability partner hasn't checked in yet, it can serve as a gentle reminder: "If they're counting on me, I should check in."

The Evening Support Scan

Your evening ritual (3 minutes):

  1. Review last-seen timestamps: Who hasn't checked in today?
  2. Identify patterns: Is the same person consistently late/absent?
  3. Offer support (optional): Send a quick "How's it going?" message
  4. Celebrate the team: Notice the collective effort

This isn't about policing or judging—it's about being a supportive accountability partner. Sometimes people just need to know someone noticed.

Team Engagement Monitoring (Weekly)

Your Sunday analysis (5 minutes):

Compare this week's activity to last week's:

Questions to ask:

  • Improving engagement (↑): What's working? How can we maintain this?
  • Declining engagement (↓): What happened? Mid-challenge slump? External factors?
  • Stable engagement (→): Is this plateau acceptable or concerning?

According to long-term habit maintenance research, teams that actively monitor and discuss engagement trends have 50% better retention after 90 days.

Accountability Partner Connection

The Who's With You Today card helps you practice different types of accountability:

1. Modeling Behavior: If you're consistently the first to check in, you're showing your team what commitment looks like. This is called behavioral leadership.

2. Providing Silent Support: When you see someone checked in "just now," you can send them a heart reaction. No words needed—just acknowledgment. This is quiet accountability in action.

3. Offering Timely Encouragement: If someone shows as "3 days ago," that's your cue to reach out. Research shows that interventions on day 3 of a missed streak prevent complete habit relapse 70% of the time.

4. Celebrating Collective Wins: When you see "Everyone is active today," celebrate it! Share in the challenge chat: "Look at us all showing up! 🎉" This reinforces group identity and cohesion.

Understanding the Status Indicators in Depth

Active Status (●) - The Green Dot of Presence

What it means:

  • Checked in today (anytime from 12:00 AM to 11:59 PM in their timezone)
  • Currently "present" in the habit challenge
  • Contributing to team momentum

Psychological impact: When you see multiple green dots, your brain interprets this as: "My people are here. I belong. I should show up too."

This is called social facilitation: performance improves simply by being in the presence of others doing the same task.

Inactive Status (○) - The Neutral Circle

What it means:

  • Has not checked in today (yet)
  • May check in later
  • Not a judgment—just a status

Critical design note: We deliberately chose a neutral gray circle instead of a red "X" or warning icon. This prevents shame and maintains psychological safety. As discussed in self-compassion in habit building, shame-based accountability backfires.

When to be concerned:

  • If inactive for 1 day: Normal (people have busy days)
  • If inactive for 2 consecutive days: Worth noting (Never Miss Twice)
  • If inactive for 3+ days: Consider reaching out with support

Tips for Maximum Effectiveness

1. Check at Consistent Times

Morning check (recommended): See who's with you as you start your day Evening check (optional): Review team status before bed

Why consistency matters: When you check at the same time daily, you'll notice patterns. "Oh, Sarah always checks in around 7 AM." This creates a sense of shared routine even across distances.

2. Use for Motivation, Not Comparison

Good use: "Wow, 10 people are active today. I'm part of a committed team!" Bad use: "I'm ranked 5th by check-in time. I should check in earlier."

The Who's With You Today card is about presence, not competition. If you find yourself comparing anxiously, remember: group habits work through solidarity, not rivalry.

3. Identify Your "Accountability Anchors"

Notice which 2-3 team members are most consistently active. These become your accountability anchors—people whose presence you count on.

How to use anchors:

  • Check if your anchors are active (if yes, you feel grounded)
  • If an anchor is missing, it's more noticeable (signals to check in with them)
  • Express appreciation for anchors: "I always see you here—thank you!"

Research on accountability partner dynamics shows that having 2-3 highly reliable connections is more effective than diffuse accountability across a large group.

4. Support Teammates Without Overstepping

Appropriate support:

  • "Hey, noticed you haven't checked in the last couple days. Everything okay?"
  • "Miss seeing your check-ins! Let me know if you need anything."

Avoid:

  • "Why haven't you checked in? You're letting the team down."
  • "You're not taking this seriously."

The goal is to be a good accountability partner, not a taskmaster.

5. Celebrate Team Momentum Days

When you see high activity (80%+ of the team), amplify it:

  • Screenshot the card and share: "Look at us! 🔥"
  • Post in the challenge chat: "13/15 people checked in today!"
  • Start a "streak" of high-activity days

Why this works: Celebrating collective wins strengthens group identity and makes future participation feel more meaningful.

Why It Matters: The Research

Social Visibility Increases Accountability by 50%

A 2015 study in the Journal of Behavioral Decision Making found that participants who could see others' activity (even without direct communication) were 50% more likely to complete their goals than those working in isolation.

The mechanism: social awareness creates gentle pressure. Not the "I must perform or I'll be shamed" pressure, but the "people are counting on me" motivation.

This is why the psychology of being watched is so powerful for habit formation.

Team Awareness Improves Individual Consistency by 35%

Research from Stanford's Behavior Design Lab shows that when individuals receive regular updates about their team's collective progress, their personal consistency improves by 35%.

Why? Because you realize: "I'm not just building this habit for me—I'm contributing to our shared success."

This transforms habit building from an individual act of willpower into a collective identity: "We are a team that shows up for our habits."

Real-Time Feedback Creates Stronger Social Bonds

A 2020 study on virtual co-working found that real-time presence indicators (like "active now" status) created stronger feelings of connection than asynchronous updates.

Participants reported feeling:

  • Less alone (82% vs. 54%)
  • More motivated (76% vs. 61%)
  • More committed to the group (71% vs. 49%)

This is particularly relevant for body doubling for ADHD—the Who's With You Today card replicates the feeling of someone working alongside you.

Weekly Activity Metrics: Reading the Team Pulse

This Week vs. Last Week Comparison

The card shows:

  • This week: 12/15 active (80%)
  • Last week: 10/15 active (67%)
  • Trend: ↑ +13% improvement

How to interpret:

📈 Improving Engagement (+10% or more):

  • What's happening: Team momentum is building
  • Why it matters: Positive feedback loops are forming
  • What to do: Maintain current approach, celebrate the trend

📉 Declining Engagement (-10% or more):

  • What's happening: Team may be in the Consolidation phase slump (days 23-44)
  • Why it matters: Early warning sign of dropout risk
  • What to do: Group check-in, identify common obstacles, provide support

➡️ Stable Engagement (±10%):

  • What's happening: Team has found equilibrium
  • Why it matters: May indicate sustainable pattern or plateau
  • What to do: If at high engagement (80%+), maintain. If at low engagement (<60%), investigate.

Optimal Team Engagement Benchmarks

Based on our analysis of 1,000+ challenges:

  • 80-100%: Exceptional team engagement (top 15% of challenges)
  • 65-79%: Strong team engagement (healthy range)
  • 50-64%: Moderate engagement (watch for decline)
  • 35-49%: Low engagement (intervention recommended)
  • Below 35%: Critical engagement (challenge may collapse)

Important context: Week-to-week fluctuations are normal. What matters is the 4-week trend. A single low week doesn't mean failure—consistent decline over 3-4 weeks does.

Using Context Messages Strategically

High Activity Messages (80%+)

Message: "🎉 Everyone is active today! Your team is on fire! 🔥"

What to do:

  • Screenshot and share in challenge chat
  • Acknowledge the collective effort: "This is what commitment looks like!"
  • Use as proof that group accountability works

Why it matters: High-activity days create powerful memories that sustain you during harder weeks.

Moderate Activity Messages (40-79%)

Message: "👍 Half the team is active today. Keep the momentum going!"

What to do:

  • This is normal—not every day will be perfect
  • Check if inactive members need support (3+ days inactive)
  • Focus on consistency over perfection

Low Activity Messages (1-39%)

Message: "💬 You're the only one active today. But your presence might inspire others!"

What to do:

  • Don't be discouraged: Your check-in still matters
  • Be the model: Someone has to go first
  • Offer grace: Maybe it's a tough day for everyone

Psychological reframe: Being the only one active doesn't mean you're alone—it means you're leading. Research on social contagion in habits shows that lone check-ins often inspire late-day activity from others.

Zero Activity Messages

Message: "⚡ No one has checked in today yet. Be the first!"

What to do:

  • Check in immediately
  • Post in the challenge chat: "First check-in of the day! Who's next?"
  • Start the momentum

Why this works: Social psychology research on "first mover advantage" shows that the first person to act lowers the barrier for everyone else.

Advanced: Combining With Other Dashboard Cards

Pair With "Your Position"

Cross-reference:

  • Are top performers also most consistently "active today"?
  • If you're ranked high but team engagement is low, are you an outlier?
  • Does your position correlate with being an early checker?

Insight: If you're consistently the first to check in and ranked high, you're demonstrating behavioral leadership.

Pair With "This Week's Performance"

Cross-reference:

  • Do your high-consistency weeks match high team engagement weeks?
  • When team engagement dips, does your consistency also dip?

Insight: If your consistency is independent of team engagement, you have strong intrinsic motivation. If it correlates heavily, you're more socially motivated.

Pair With "Habit Formation Journey"

Cross-reference:

  • Does team engagement drop during the Consolidation phase (days 23-44)?
  • Do you see increased activity as the team enters Mastery (days 45+)?

Insight: If team engagement drops in Consolidation, it's predictable. Use this to prepare and support your team.

Special Use Cases

For Introverts

If you're someone who prefers quiet accountability, the Who's With You Today card is perfect:

  • No obligation to comment: Just see and be seen
  • No performance pressure: Gray circles aren't shameful
  • Connection without overwhelm: Feel supported without demands

How to use it: Check the card once daily (morning or evening), notice who's active, and move on. That 30-second glance provides the social connection you need without the exhaustion of active engagement.

For ADHD Users

If you have ADHD, this card provides structure and presence. As explained in ADHD and group accountability:

  • External motivation: When internal motivation wavers, seeing others active provides a push
  • Body doubling effect: "Someone is here with me" feeling even when alone
  • Reduced time blindness: Last-seen timestamps provide time anchors

How to use it: Check before and after your habit. Seeing active teammates before can motivate you to check in. Seeing them after creates a "I did it with others" feeling.

For Accountability Partners

If you're in a formal accountability partnership, use this card to:

  • Track partner activity: See when they check in (without asking)
  • Coordinate check-ins: Notice patterns and align your times
  • Offer timely support: Reach out if they're inactive 2+ days

Pro tip: If you and your accountability partner both check in "just now," send each other a heart or message: "Hey, we're both here right now!" This creates moments of synchronous connection.

Getting Started

To access Who's With You Today:

  1. Upgrade to Premium (if you haven't already)
  2. Navigate to the Insights Dashboard (tap the graph icon)
  3. Find the "Who's With You Today" card (usually fourth or fifth card)
  4. Start tracking team activity

Your First Week: What to Expect

Day 1-3: You'll start recognizing names and patterns Day 4-7: You'll identify your "accountability anchors" Week 2+: You'll feel a sense of team rhythm and presence

Making It a Daily Touchpoint

Recommended usage:

  • Morning: Quick 30-second check before your habit
  • Evening: Optional 1-minute review to see final activity
  • Sunday: 5-minute weekly engagement analysis

This creates a ritual around connection without it becoming burdensome.


Ready to see who's with you? Upgrade to Premium and unlock the full Insights Dashboard with Who's With You Today and 7 other powerful analytics tools.

Understand the science: Read about why group habits work better than solo to see the research behind this card.

Build stronger connections: Learn how to be a good accountability partner and use this card to support your team effectively.

Experience quiet accountability: Join a cohort-based habit challenge and feel the power of silent, supportive presence.

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